Let's Take It Back (2007)

True Story:
   

In my opinion...some women are in complete denial, when it comes to men. Some women believe what they want to believe. Yes, even in the year 2008 women are still from Venus and men are totally from Mars. Some women choose to believe what they want and tend to use thier feelings as an indication of what their relationship is with their man. If you know your man is cheating in you, do not wait to catch him in the act. Dump hum right there. Save yourself the headaches, and the snooping around. There are much better things to be looking for.

     For instance, six months ago, I started dating a guy I met at the national Puerto Rican Day parade in New York. As we started talking he made it clear to me that he was not looking for a relationship. However, as time went on I grew very close to him. We went to ball games together, held hands, kissed passionately and even giggled at each other's good and bad jokes. He even told me that he loved me. We did everything that a real couple did but we were not officially a couple.

     Forward to December 2007, after minor disagreements, lots of hugs and kisses, headaches and an extreme amount of feelings for one another, we were still not a couple. You see, I messed up. When I first met this particular guy I heard everything he said but "I do not want a relationship." I wanted to hear what I want. Man are not necessarily Liars, they are more like actors that women script in thier international movies of love. Actors who are not right for the part in the first place but were still scripted with little regards to what they can and/or cannot do.

     After investing six months with this guy, in the end, the only thing I gained was the ideal friendship.

Disclaimer: This particular article was written by me and was also published in Medgar Evers College Newspaper, Adafi News in the year 2007. For more information on Adafi News, email: Adafi@mec.cuny.edu 

Thank you, have a blessed day

-MissMartinez